Exploring Safe and Pleasurable Positions
Are you wondering which penis-in-vagina (PIV) positions might work best for someone with a significantly curved penis? Your partner may feel anxious about the possibility of injury during penetrative sex due to the pronounced left curve. While he feels more at ease in a position where he can control the movement, such as being on top, you might be looking for more variety beyond the missionary position. Here are some suggestions to help you both stay in the moment and enjoy intimacy.
Trial and Error 😘 Finding What Works
The good news is there’s an opportunity to explore and enjoy a variety of sexual experiences with your partner. Each penis has its unique characteristics in terms of size, girth, length, curvature, and rigidity, while each vagina has its distinct features like depth, flexibility, and natural lubrication. Therefore, it’s crucial to experiment with different positions to discover what works best for both of you.
Men’s Health offers a list of 56 sex positions that are worth exploring. As you experiment with these, use plenty of lubricant to help reduce discomfort and increase pleasure for both partners. Remember, the goal isn’t necessarily to achieve orgasm during these sessions but to learn which positions feel comfortable and safe.
Communication is Key
During your intimate moments, open communication is essential. Share your experiences, discussing any discomfort or pleasure you feel. Encourage your partner to express his sensations as well. This dialogue can lead to adjustments that enhance the experience for both of you.
Experimenting with angles can also be beneficial. Try placing a pillow under your back or tilting your hips upward. If a position feels good and safe, your partner can gradually increase speed and intensity to see how it affects both of you.
Spice Things Up with Sex Toys
Incorporating sex toys can add excitement to your experiences. Consider using a vibrator on your clitoris while he is on top, or introduce a vibrating cock ring for added stimulation. A butt plug can also enhance sensations for a more thrilling experience.
Recommended Positions
It’s important to pace yourselves and not rush through all the positions in one night. Take your time and make this exploration an enjoyable, ongoing activity. Dr. Lee Phillips, a psychotherapist and certified sex and couple’s therapist, recommends starting with two positions:
Stand and Deliver
In this position, your partner stands at the edge of a bed or desk while you lie back with your legs raised to your chest. Bend your knees as if performing a “bicycling” exercise. He will hold your ankles and enter you. This position provides him with control, allowing him to focus on the experience.
Bone Prone
For this position, lie flat on your stomach while your partner positions himself behind you with bent knees. He will enter you from behind. This position is beneficial for G-spot stimulation due to the downward angle and the curve of his penis, which can reach the upper vaginal wall.
If these positions aren’t quite right for you, remember there are many others to explore. With patience and open communication, you’ll find what works best for both of you.